How do you spooning

Let's dive deeper into it, shall we? Spooning is when a couple spoon-feeds each other peas until they both climax. Just kidding. It's what happens when two people lie side-by-side, butt-to-back. In the same way two spoons fit together, two bodies can do the same. Generally, the big spoon's knees rest beneath the bent knees of the little spoon and their arms wrap around the little spoon," explains licensed dating and relationship expert Erica Cramer.

But keep in mind that spooning is way more than just a cuddle. It's intimate, vulnerable, and can release all those feel-good endorphins for both partners. Spooning can also be used as a sex position. In the same way it works for cuddling, you can also have sex this way too. For one, spooning builds major bonds with whomever you're spooning with. The spooning position also doesn't need to include penetrative sex.

Reminder: Sex doesn't equal P-in-V! It can be all about oral, hand stuff, or even mutual masturbation. And this is a great position for that stuff. I think the best thing about spooning is that spooning is just such an intimate safe space to start off in. By Amber Rambharose October 06, Each product we feature has been independently selected and reviewed by our editorial team. If you make a purchase using the links included, we may earn commission.

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Why do folks love spooning sex so much? Relax into it. Experiment with different styles of penetration. Move your bits around. Add in the ass. Get kinky with it. Whisper sweet read: dirty nothings. Do It: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind.

Okay, so this is more like a half-spooning position, but who's counting? All this tweak takes is a minor shift in form on your end you just flip onto your back and lift a leg for your to get some direct grinding action on your clitoris. Do It: Flip onto your back while your partner stays on their side. Then raise your left leg so they can position themself between your legs at a degree angle and enter you. As far as I'm concerned, spooning is less about your heads facing the same direction and way more about your bodies cocooning into each other.

I mean, there's no reason you can't have spooning sex while looking into each other's eyes—so meet the Reverse Scoop. Do It: Flip your body to face your partner, and pull their body close to yours as they enter you. Intertwine your legs, and go read: grind at it. Who said you can only spoon while lying down? This tweak on the Traditional Spoon ensures serious G-spot stimulation —and changes up the view of your hot bodies. Do It: Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair.